Nyc gay bear bars

New York City is home to many great gay club nights, but one of our favorites is Soaked, held monthly at Rockbar. Soaked is a night full of body positivity, great song, drag, bears and go-go dancers. Plus, they have a wet underwear contest! 

To find out more, we spoke to the organisers Matty B and J.Rios: 

Hi guys! Why don’t we start by having you say us about yourselves and your backgrounds

My name is Matty B. I’m of Italian and Irish decent. I’m a native New Yorker and a licensed hair stylist. I am also a special organizer for the NYC Veterans Day parade, an active member of The American Legion Post 1291 and an activist for current active duty military and veterans needs and causes.

I started in the club scene about 8 years ago while working with the Furball Party at various places such as XL lounge, Space Ibiza, Santos House, Stage 48, Cielo and The Copacabana. While working with these places I realized that I wanted to be more involved with nightlife scene and to bring something that was different to a scene that had a lot of the matching parties. So when my best buddy J.Rios and myself talked about what we wanted to do to switch things up, Soak

NYC bear guide

NYC bears are hardly confined to one habitat. Operate our bear guide to discover where you can party with these friendly, furry urban creatures.

Undeniably, the NYC bear scene has moved from subculture to the gay mainstream in the past few years, thanks in part to large-scale events like Urban Bear Weekend and Provincetown, Massachusetts's Bear Week. At this aim , bearded, husky guys dominate much of gay clubs and nightlife, from gay bars like Stonewall and Rockbar to mega sway parties including Horse Meat Disco and the Fur Ball. So what makes a bear? These days, it's pretty much anyone with face fuzz and a bit of extra meat on his bones. We're not generally hung up on labels around here, but there's no denying that these guys throw some of the best parties around. Our NYC bear guide will help you navigate the furry forest.

NYC bear photos and videos

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Gay bear videos

Bears are a viral sensation! Check out these fuzzy videos from all corners of the Web.

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NYC bear photos

Check out our images of bears in their natural habitat of NYC nightlife

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Photos: The Urban Bear Lane Fair

Urban bears came out in the sun for an ursine fest

where bears dance

Furball, NYC's infamous gay furry dance party. 

Loved by bears and their friends both nationally & around the world! 

Upcoming Furball Events

THIS WEEKEND!!!

FURBALL NYC GLOW PARTY

JULY 25, 2025

The Eagle - NYC

Tickets $25 at the door // Cash bar only!​

UPCOMING EVENTS!

FURBALL CAMP 2025

AUGUST 1-3, 2025

CAMPOut - Poconos, PA​

Make Your Reservations Here!

FURBALL Chicago Market Days

AUGUST 8, 2025

Metro Chicago- Chicago, IL​

GET YOUR TICKETS HERE!

FURBALL @ MAD.BEAR Beach

AUGUST 16, 2025

Aqua Emporio - Torrmelinos, Spain​

GET YOUR TICKETS HERE!



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